Finding Balance: A Guide for Working Moms

Kelly Richter
Jul 10
2 min read

Being a working mom is like juggling flaming torches and rubber chickens—rewarding, yet chaotically challenging! But with a sprinkle of strategy and a dollop of determination, you can master this circus act.

Here’s your guide to taming the wild ride of working momhood, and lets get real... Balance does NOT mean equal time for everything !

Prioritize and Plan

Tame the chaos with a well-crafted plan:

Set Clear Priorities: Zero in on what truly matters—whether it's those precious giggles with your kids, climbing the career ladder, or sneaking in some me-time.
Create a Schedule: Channel your inner planner guru! Map out your week like a pro, pencil in work, family fun, and self-care. Whether digital or old-school paper, let your planner be your trusty sidekick.
Plan Family Activities: Schedule joy! Whether it’s board games, weekend adventures, or cozy dinners, make sure these heartwarming moments actually happen and its based on how you want to FEEL!

Embrace Flexibility

Flexibility is your secret weapon:

Negotiate Work Arrangements: Chat with your boss about working from your couch or tweaking hours. Find a groove that jives with career and family life.
Adapt to Changes: Life’s a roller coaster, and plans might get flipped. Embrace the unexpected with a grin and keep stress at bay.

Establish Boundaries

Set up fences around your precious time:

Define Work Hours: Draw a line in the sand between work and family time. Alert colleagues and kin about your boundaries.
Limit Distractions: During family moments, turn off work buzzers and be all in.

Practice Self-Care

Put your oxygen mask on first:

Prioritize Health: Fuel your body with sleep, exercise, and healthy eats. This trio keeps your energy tanks topped up.
Make Time for Yourself: Dive into activities that refresh you, be it a book, yoga, or a quirky hobby.

Build a Support System

Create a cheer squad:

Seek Help When Needed: Don’t shy away from calling in reinforcements—family, friends, or professionals. Lighten the load!
Connect with Other Moms: Plug into parenting groups or online havens to swap stories, snag advice, and soak up encouragement.

Foster Open Communication

Talk it out for stronger bonds:

Involve Your Partner: Tag your partner into the parenting and chores ring. Keep roles clear to dodge misunderstandings.
Talk with Your Children: Keep communication flowing with the kiddos. Hear them out and let them join in on age-appropriate decisions.

Being a working mom is a never-ending dance of patience and resilience. By weaving these strategies into your life, you can craft a symphony that harmonizes career dreams with family joy. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about progress. Celebrate your wins, learn from the hiccups, and keep balancing like a boss!

Books Recommendations:

Beautiful Chaos

Raising a Happier Mother

Remaining you, while raising them

You don't have to Carry it all

I was told There’d be A Village